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Lessons from Nature
Sandpipers on the beach. What does that have to do with Career
Communications? Recently, I made my yearly spring trip to Long Beach,
Washington. I packed up the car and told my colleagues that I was
going to the beach to write. The reply was “Yah, right,”
as they gave me a big grin. Hey, writing is a significant part of
my career.
The second morning I was there, I put on my walking clothes, grabbed
my water bottle and headed to the beach that I had been observing
out my window. Went over the grassy knoll, followed the tracks of
a truck through the softer sand, then walked to the ocean’s
edge. Once again, the feeling of being awfully small overwhelmed
me as I watched the ocean waves with their power crash over each
other.
I came upon sandpipers scurrying out on the sand as the wave pulled
back even farther. I kept on walking and then all of sudden it made
me think about people looking for positions. There are so many people
sitting on the sidelines waiting for the position to come to them.
Experience has shown me that people do not get jobs by sitting
home behind their computers. In fact, some of the job boards are
posting recycled positions just to make it look like they have jobs
available. They want you to keep coming back to them.
I watched some of the sandpipers stand on the edge waiting for
the waves to bring their food to them. Then there were quite a few
that actually chased after the waves looking for the morsel that
would help them sustain their lives. My guess is that they will
be the one that found the most food. They truly will be satisfied
and nourished until the next morning. Just like the people who make
looking for a position their career until they find a new position.
A few steps further, I blinked my eye and said –“No,
that can’t be.” Yet, it was true, two of the most active
sandpipers had only one leg. Yet, they hopped so rapidly they were
keeping up with all the others following the waves.
The one-legged sandpipers didn’t let their handicap hold
them back. I watched closely to see if they stayed together for
support. Interestingly enough they blended in with the rest of the
flock. From what I saw, they used their skills just as adeptly as
the others did. They had a mission and they were fulfilling the
goals.
So often I hear, I am too old, nobody is going to hire me, I have
been out of the job market too long, I have been home being a homemaker-thus,
I don’t have any skills, I don’t have a degree. I believe
I have heard every excuse under the sun. Yet, people are getting
jobs—many of them are not ever advertised.
Employers are hiring for enthusiasm. The issue is that if you
are not excited about the industry you looking for position in,
you will not stand out. You’ll be the sandpiper on the edge---You
are “hoping” something will come along that will sustain
your needs.
My sense is that the sandpipers that chased the waves this morning
will go back for naps and wake up satisfied with what they accomplished
today. They knew what they were looking for and they took a risk
and went after it. Like the sandpipers, the true winners in this
economy will be the ones who truly understand what their innate
talents are and the industry that will bring them the greatest joy.
They will share their enthusiasm for the industry and network their
way into that industry. When you know what you are looking for,
people will be delighted to help you.
You will be surprised how quickly it comes to you when you are
focused. Use this time period to really “decide” what
you would like to do the rest of your life. My wish for you is that
your work feels like playing to you. When it does, you know you
are using your innate skills.
The sandpipers taught me another lessons, get out in nature more
often.
Kathy Condon is a Career Facilitator,
International Speaker and Trainer.
She works with individuals on all aspects
of career transition, including the coaching of CEOs. Her newly
released CDs/Tapes “Connect with People-It’s
the Little Things” and her eBook, 55
Networking Tips, can be purchased here.
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